*Reflections*

It’s impossible to please everyone, it utterly is. Because there is always going to be that one person who doesn’t like or agree with what u do, try or say.

But why is it that we feel we should care what they think? Are you happy with what you do? That’s the only opinion that should matter.

It’s crazy how we jump when the world says jump but question our heart’s desire, we question our thoughts, we question our feelings; because we JUST HAVE TO think, will my friends be happy, will the whole freaking world be happy. But throughout this process we exclude the one who should be the center piece on the table of our lives... OURSELF!!

It’s amusing how we put our own feelings and our own happiness on the back burner and try everything humanly possible to please the ones who aren’t doing the same for us. We highlight them and hope and pray that this choice is the one to make us blissful BUT we chose to put others first, we chose to try and please them, we chose this route, but is it the route to happiness?

It’s non-sense how we feel we need to be loved by someone, so we dare ourselves to go the extra mile for ones who put on the ‘I love you’ show but in the end; when you’ve tried it all and they still want more, the more you don’t have to offer; they quit the cast and your left all ‘alone’. With an ending you didn't bargain for and you curse the world... but who really is to be blamed? Why can’t the one to love you be you? If you don’t love you how on God’s green Earth will someone else? Lead the ‘love ME’ train THEN call “All aboard!” and if the next stop is theirs let it be, ‘alone’ is a figment of our imagination, you’re never truly alone once you have YOU.

Embrace you, be you, once you do you’ll find that you’ve annihilated the 'alone' you’ve grown to know.

Until we start putting the ‘Me’ before the ‘Them’ it will always be wrong. I'm calling a spade a spade... Life isn't going to be a rainbow but at least try to get the colours right, and the "ME" is the starting of the line-up. It shouldn’t have to be “Am I pleasing the world?” it shouldn’t have to be “Will they like this?” it SHOULD however be “Is this going to make me happy?” it SHOULD be “Is this the right choice for ME?” because let’s face it, we go through the fire, put our necks on the block for them but they don’t see it fit to do the same for us... You know this is the truth 3/4^th of the time.

It is impossible to please everyone; everyone doesn’t matter and shouldn’t matter until YOU are straight with yourself, until you are happy, until you love you completely flaws and all.